Youth ministry is my favorite area of service, but my first love will always be Pathfinders. Through this ministry I developed a relationship with God, joined the Adventist Church, and discovered a passion for nature and helping others.
This marks my 15th year in Pathfinders and my 12th year serving in summer camp ministry. Many people don’t realize how life-changing these programs are. I’ve seen kids grow in character, behavior, and even academically just from being in a space where they feel respected and supported.
It’s a beautiful thing to be poured into and then pay it forward. Youth of all ages crave acceptance and a safe place to belong. Sadly, many don’t have that at home. That’s where youth ministry steps in. During COVID, we even hosted a junior camp on Zoom so the kids could still experience connection and community.
Some older generations struggle to understand the challenges youth face today. Yes, the struggles are different, but they’re still real. When we ignore or dismiss them, we do harm. Young people deserve to be heard and treated with respect. Accountability matters, but relationships must come first.
How we speak also makes a difference. Proverbs 15:1–2 says, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. The tongue of the wise adorns knowledge but the mouth of the fool gushes folly.”
Youth ministry also means teaching practical skills, such as survival, nature awareness, food preparation and community service. But let’s be honest: Being a young adult in youth ministry isn’t easy. Conversations with other young leaders, AY leaders, Pathfinder directors and youth pastors, often reveal the same struggles: poor communication with older members and being dismissed or gossiped about for being “too young to understand.”
It’s discouraging when your ideas are shut down or your character questioned while you’re trying to make a difference. In those moments, we remind ourselves: “We are not here for them. We are here to serve the youth in the capacity God has called us to.”
One phrase I live by is: “Do not let your feelings determine your salvation.” Your feelings are valid, but don’t let emotions guide your decisions. And remember, even Jesus was criticized and misunderstood. If He endured that, why should we expect better?
Youth ministry may not come with a paycheck, but it’s fulfilling in ways money can’t measure. It’s a calling. So, if you’re feeling that call, will you answer? Or are you going to let one person, or even group of people in the church who are not showing the fruit of the spirit be the reason for not taking part in the harvest?
Kailyn Williams is a student at the Seventh-day Theological Seminary at Andrews University and serves as the Camp Wagner executive coordinator assistant.